Archive for October, 2007
Att: Women – How to reveal your sexuality on your terms
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Discover how to send the right sexual messages The art and craft of revealing your sexuality through the power of positive behavior allows you to reveal your sexuality on your own terms and your desired personality.
Here’s an exercise to help you reveal your sexuality:
- Identify a movie character that, as soon as you saw them on the screen, you instantly admired them for their natural sexuality that they revealed.
- Now compare yourself to that character and write down the answers to the following questions in your journal journal:
- Question 1: Who are you in relation to that character? (i.e.- love interests, best friend, jealous rival, an extra in the background, the undesirable costar, the bit player, etc)
- Question 2: What does the star have that you do not have?
What do you admire about them that they have you don’t? - Question 3: Which behaviors do you need to learn to duplicate or model to get what they have?
- The Answer: Talent is knowledge so it is all learnable. Do you see yourself as others see you?
- Question #4: If you were on the dating game, would you be chosen- and why? Make a case for yourself. Answer these questions:
1. Why should they choose you?
2. Which one of the bachelors are you attracted to?
3. What kind of people are you generally drawn to sexually? Who do you desire?
4. Why are you drawn to these people?
5. What is their product that they create to offer you/ What do they have in their store of life to help or offer you? - NOW CREATE A PROFILE OF YOUR SOUL MATE!
Write down ten things that he has that you desire. (i.e.- looks, education, physical appearance, personality, interests, religion, etc) - By identifying your soul mate, you’re identifying the perfect reflection of your sexuality personality that you desire to portray. You will identify the characters that you are playing, by identifying the character that is the ideal reflection of you.
- Would you soul mate be interested in you? Why or why not?
- What characters do you need to create to make them be attracted to you?
- YOU are a work in progress! When you can look in the mirror and feel GREAT, you will be empowered to reach all the goals that you set for yourself. You will be a good “actor for real”, portraying a real, enlightened personality!
- Now that you have a blueprint, reread it, add to it, and TAKE ACTION! (The lifeblood of Acting FOR REAL is when the director yells “action!”
Help Me Help You!!!
1Heaven Hi
One of my favorite movies, Jerry Maguire, has three great lines. “SHOW ME THE MONEY!” “YOU HAD ME AT HELLO,” and “HELP ME HELP YOU!” Most internet marketing uses the first one “Show me the money!” but this line is based on greed which is never the way to build a successful life. We at acting for real hope we had you at “Heaven Hi” because our mission is based on sharing, caring, and teaching. But my favorite line is “help me help you.” Think about that line say it over a few times-HELP ME HELP YOU! In fact ask you’re self. What can you do to start this line of communication; you need to ask on the blog.
Here is my new mantra: Help Me HELP YOU…
Thanks for allowing me to keep you WELL informed and PREPARED.
Be Blessed. You deserve Success.
See You at the Top,
Be BOP!!!
Thom McFadden
Charlize Theron Named Sexiest Woman Alive!
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The Associated Press– October 10th, 2007
NEW YORK — Charlize Theron has an Oscar, a Golden Globe and a Screen Actors Guild award. Now she’s Esquire magazine’s “sexiest woman alive.”
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What is the psychological gesture all these star performers have in common that you can model??
They are all, in one way or another, flirting with you, the audience. How do you reveal sexuality so it becomes a permanent part of your character?
Revealing sexuality is a twenty-five degree shift in your physical behavior and body language. This creates an angle, so your body is not aligned as a perfeclty even square. Nobody is going to flirt with a “square”! Revealing sexuality is a drop of your shoulder, a tilt of your head, a coy glance, a pouty mouth, licking your lips, tossing or playing with your hair, or crossing your legs period. Recognize any of these? Whichever of these you don’t already do, add to your arsenal of duplicable behaviors. Use these to reveal your sexuality/desire.personality.
Check out Charlize’s picture. What is she revealing?
Xtra—Extra- Cell phone numbers going public!
0REMINDER….all cell phone numbers are being released to telemarketing companies today and you will start to receive sales calls.
….YOU WILL BE CHARGED FOR THESE CALLS
To prevent this, call the following number from your cell phone: 888-382-1222.
It is the National DO NOT CALL list. It will only take a minute of your time
It blocks your number for five (5) years. You must call from the cell phone number you want to have blocked. You cannot call from a different phone number.
You can do this online at www.donotcall.gov
Holidays For Real
5Heaven Hi!!!
Our holiday season is just around the corner so the following questions start to arise; have you bought your pumpkin yet? Where’s your Halloween costume? Are we going for a big Christmas tree this year, or are we settling for the one the size of a Bonsai? The holiday seasons are always busy. Here at Acting For Real we feel the need for everyone to experience the joys of life. My book Acting For Real will guide you through the skills and steps you need in order to rise to the success you deserve. You will be able to have your cake and eat it too. In other words to be successful in all aspects of your life and enjoy it too. I am so excited to be sharing these Secrets of the Stars with you. When I make others happy it makes me happy. So why not hop off that fence and start now.
Be BOP!!!
Thom
Launching For Real
0Heaven Hi!!!
For those of you who didn’t know. Our Acting For Real launch is taking off on October 9th. Less than 24 hours away. Check out our countdown page; www.actingforreal.com. We will be holding our teleseminar presented by myself, Thom McFadden. We will also be launching our life changing Acting For Real products. So again, stop by our site www.actingforreal.com and check it out. At Acting For Real YOU will break through to the life you love.
Be BOP!!!
Thom
Positive Birthday Remembered
1Heaven Hi!!!
Even though my birthday is October 4th I was reminded of another birthday this month. On October 13th I read the Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peele. That day changed my life. Coming from a divorced family, I had allot of anger, and thank goodness, at the time I had football. That’s where I previously would release my anger. However, I knew as I grew older that tackling someone any time I was angry wouldn’t have been the best approach. So, after I read this book, it inspired me to change my attitude. I found that when you are confronted with anything in life, no matter what it is, it’s your attitude that makes all the difference. A negative attitude will do what negative is designed to do; bring you down. However, with a positive attitude there is no ceiling to how high you can go. The power of a positive attitude creates the power of positive behavior which goes hand in hand with The Power of Positive Thinking. I encourage you to read the book, Power of Positive Thinking, because this book inspired me to write, Acting For Real. So, with your positive attitude, put on a happy face, and give a wink and a smile to a life well lived.
Be BOP!!!
Thom
Heaven Halloween Hi!!!
0Heaven Hi!!!
Halloween is just around the corner, and it’s time to pick up the pumpkin, and don the outfits. Do you remember how fun Halloween was as a kid. The different character, and costumes. We became so passionate to really portray the character we were playing, because, HEY, it was fun. At Acting For Real, that’s what we believe. However, as grown ups, we still play different characters everyday. Whether we are the cool salesman, or the compassionate CEO, we all play many different roles in life. So, let’s find the passion in our lives once again, and have some fun. Who knows, I think you’ll be surprised by how life changing it is to be in BOP(Balanced, Observent, and Present) To have the Keys To A Great Attitude, and to know how to use the enlightened triangle of Human Behavior. So pick up my book and learn how. Discover your creativity. You have it and it’s time you realize it. Also, try not to eat too much candy.
Be BOP!!!
Thom
Goodbye Coffee
2Heaven Hi!!!
For those of you who have noticed that I’ve stopped my tagline; Let’s have a cup of coffee. My sons have told me to “stop drinking coffee,” on my website. Get to the subject right away. Take me there. If there are some of you who feel that approach is a little too conversational and tacky as a headline, let me know. However, if you like it, drop me a reply. Let me know your thoughts. Thanks.
Be BOP!!!
Thom
A Joyful Birthday Surprise!!!
0Heaven Hi!!!
Thank you to everyone for your birthday wishes. Thursday the 4th. Was a great surprise for me. I thought we were to celebrate on Saturday, but my family threw it early, and it was GREAT. I finally realized what Marcel Marceau said earlier from my previous blog where he asked me the great question: Are you happy? At that moment I realized what true happiness was. It was a feeling of euphoria, and sublimity. For that whole evening I was ecstatic. Pure joy was everywhere. It was a loving birthday party. Have you had moments of happiness in your life? Ask yourself; are you happy? What would it take? What do you need to do? How do you get there? Give me your feedback. I’d love to hear from you.
Be BOP!
Thom
